At this point I think we need to get someone who is as expert as he/she can be and get to the bottom of this issue. There are too much confusion and unreasonables. Who can recommend someone? Have to be one that has legal experience and willing to fight for us! Not the lousy lawyers who ask us to calm down or wait for our fate to be determined by others, then they can make a living out of our misery. We need an activist! Maybe we should look for those who married to an American lawyer, see if they can extend help!