We went for interview yesterday in Chicago.
the whole thing is very shocking in the sense that it was so simple and fast.
we did not do a good job preparing . I did not have my birth certificate when the officer asked for it
I just said, it is in Chinese , anyway", haha she said" well, I may still need it though" I was like " we were so disorganized obvioiusly, I don;t know where we have it "
I can't believe I said such a thing!
But we did have lease, bank account, and some pictures with him and my parents in , she collected those and put them together and kept them.
WE didnot spend time preparing , because we thought we were losing the case, I lfet the country without A P and came back on F1 visa in Aug. She asked when the last entry was, and she was surprised at the F1 in Aug. and she said "execuse me "and left, she must have gone somewhere asking someone, and then she asked whether I Am still a student after she came back , I said I was. She did not ask for any proof that I am a student. ( I forgot to give her my I20 and stuff) then she started putting our lease stuff together , and said she is going to make a decision by the end of week, and mail us the result.
my hu*****and said" Any hint?" she said, as long as the marriage looks good to me, well it looks good to me" and she joked something " blah blah bad" , me and my hu*****and both did not hear waht she said, we " pardon"ed , she did not say it again, she said" well, you did not get it , did you"
at last ,she walked us out of the office, and asked my hu*****and how he liked his China trip, I don;t remember what he said exactly,something like "Shocking"( because that was his first trip overseas, they both laughed on a friendly term.
oh, by the way, she did ask when we got married, I said NOv. * th last year.
Also she started asking ME questions, So I did all the talking, My hu*****and just sat there , did not say much till the end, I later asked him why he did not jump in and say something I might have forgotten, HE said" WEll, I thought it was a conversation between you and her, it was rude ... I thought" FainT!!!
anyway, that;s the whole, thing. DO you all think I will get it?
I don;t want to spend more money and time on it, hope it worked this time!!!
thank you XiaoBai Tu for your encouragement earlier!!!
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