My case is still stuck in NC, just got transfered to TSC. It's been
over 28 months. WOM seems not making any sense these days for I-485
cases.
My friends, anyway with/without green card, life still goes on.
We have to adjust/control our own emotions. Feeling painful and aidless
are normal. But, don't let this kind of feeling control your life. What do you need to do for your everyday life, just do it. If you feel to change your job, do it. Don't let the GC ruin your life.
Worst case, we won't get green. But, we still have China. China is developed very fast.
Take care and have patience!