走马读人2012-07-11 14:38:19

志向 and 意志 should be distinguished, One's 志向 aspiration may be lofty, but 意志 or 毅力 willpower may be quite low, (I once wanted to change my name to 刚 for that reason).

At my mother's last moments, I witnessed that her unyielding heart is still beating.

ZT

1.坚持意志伟大的事业需要始终不渝的精神。 ——伏尔泰
2.公共的利益,人类的福利,可以使可憎的工作变为可贵,只有开明人士才能知道克服困难所需要的热忱。 ——佚名
3在希望与失望的决斗中,如果你用勇气与坚决的双手紧握着,胜利必属于希望。——普里尼
4.一个人所能做的就是做出好榜样,要有勇气在风言风语的社会中坚定地高举伦理的信念。 ——爱因斯坦
5.你既然期望辉煌伟大的一生,那么就应该从今天起,以毫不动摇的决心和坚定不移的信念,凭自己的智慧和毅力,去创造你和人类的快乐。 ——佚名
6.最可怕的敌人,就是没有坚强的信念。 ——罗曼•罗兰
7.只要持续地努力,不懈地奋斗,就没有征服不了的东西。 ——塞内加
8.无论是美女的歌声,还是鬣狗的狂吠,无论是鳄鱼的眼泪,还是恶狼的嚎叫,都不会使我动摇。 ——恰普曼
9.书不记,熟读可记;义不精,细思可精;惟有志不立,直是无著力处。——朱熹
10.既然我已经踏上这条道路,那么,任何东西都不应妨碍我沿着这条路走下去。——康德
11.坚强的信念能赢得强者的心,并使他们变得更坚强。 ——白哲特
12.三军可夺帅也,匹夫不可夺志也。 ——佚名
13.立志不坚,终不济事。——朱熹
14.富贵不能淫,贫贱不能移,威武不能屈。 ——孟子
15.意志目标不在自然中存在,而在生命中蕴藏。 ——武者小路实笃
16.意志若是屈从,不论程度如何,它都帮助了暴力。 ——但丁
17.只要有坚强的意志力,就自然而然地会有能耐、机灵和知识。——陀思妥耶夫斯基
18.功崇惟志,业广惟勤。 ——佚名
19.能够岿然不动,坚持正见,度过难关的人是不多的。 ——雨果
20.立志用功如种树然,方其根芽,犹未有干;及其有干,尚未有枝;枝而后叶,叶而后花。 ——王守仁
21.谁有历经千辛万苦的意志,谁就能达到任何目的。 ——米南德
22.不作什么决定的意志不是现实的意志;无性格的人从来不做出决定。 ——黑格尔
23.执着追求并从中得到最大快乐的人,才是成功者。 ——梭罗
24.有了坚定的意志,就等于给双脚添了一对翅膀。 ——乔•贝利
25.有百折不挠的信念的所支持的人的意志,比那些似乎是无敌的物质力量有更强大的威力。 ——爱因斯坦
26.意志的出现不是对愿望的否定,而是把愿望合并和提升到一个更高的意识水平上。——罗洛•梅
27.疼痛的强度,同自然赋于人类的意志和刚度成正比。 ——武者小路实笃
28.有志者事竟成。 ——佚名
29.永远没有人力可以击退一个坚决强毅的希望。 ——金斯莱
30.您得相信,有志者事竟成。古人告诫说:“天国是努力进入的”。只有当勉为其难地一步步向它走去的时候,才必须勉为其难地一步步走下去,才必须勉为其难地去达到它。——果戈理

Seven Ways to Improve Your Willpower

Positively good!

The first, and perhaps the most important thing, is to "think positive". It's not that this has any magical qualities - it's just that it's easier for your brain to focus on a single thing you want to do than try to avoid a whole raft of things which lead to a bad outcome. In addition, concentrating on the bad things to avoid keeps your brain in a state of constant fear which muddies your thinking and, again, makes it difficult for you to concentrate on the important things you need to do to succeed.

Win The War by Winning the Big Battles

Using your willpower is like any other form of mental activity - you can only do so much of it: it's a limited resource. So don't use it up on insignificant things (unless you're training it - see below). Keep it for the Big Decisions. As these are also types of willpower, remember that resisting temptation and controlling emotions deplete your "store" of willpower.

Plan to Succeed

Writing a clear plan about your intentions to do something, including full details of how, when and where, makes it much more likely you'll get the job done. Putting it down on paper (this is actually better than typing into a To Do list on your PC, unless you print it) makes it seem more "real" to your brain. This means less stress on your willpower to get started on it.

Energise your willpower

Just like other forms of hard mental exercise (and physical exercise of course), making your willpower work uses energy. Con't forget that one fifth of all the energy you eat gets used by your brain. So, when your trying to get on with something that's hard to knuckle down to, you need energy to fuel your brain. The best way to get this would be a healthy slow-release snack half an hour before you need to act - but that also takes willpower! So, if you have to, try something which is not too sweet, perhaps a nuts-and-berries type bar sweetened with honey. Avoid white sugar and artificial sweeteners if you can - the former is just plain bad for you and the latter won't provide the energy you are trying to get. If all else fails, give in to the chocolate biscuit that's calling from the cookie jar but win the Big Battle you needed the energy for in the first place!

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Strengthen your willpower

Your will power is like a muscle: exercising it can strengthen it. Sticking to plans to attain small targets will strengthen the "muscle" and enable you to tackle larger targets. For example, Make a plan to go to the gym once or twice a week. Be specific - decide to do it once OR to do it twice. ANd be realistic: it's not good feeling good about deciding to do it twice if, in fact, you usually won't be able to manage it. Once youv'e been sticking to the plan for a couple of months, make a plan for something a bit more ambitious that you didn't have the willpower to do before.

Get Into The Habit

You can give your willpower a helping hand by using external triggers for the things you want to do. For example, if you want to go out for a walk every evening after dinner to improve your general health and lose a bit of weight, set a small alarm clock to the appropriate time. Don't use that clock for anything else and put it in the room where you're most likely to be at that time. This will make it easier to get on with it and turn it into a no-sweat habit. You could also use your mobile phone if you always carry it with you - many of them have simple alarm facilities.

Aim for specific goals

Vague goals are easy to fudge or just generally ignore. If the goal is too general it's easy to wander off into peripheral areas of it and convinve yourself that you're succeeding when in fact you're ignoring the main. Choose tightly-specified goals that can be expressed in a one or two succinct sentences - you're more likely to succ

ZT

1、人能行走多远?不要问双脚,而是要问志向

2、人能攀登多高?不要问身躯,而是要问意志

3、人能创造多少?不要问双手,而是要问智慧

4、人能看见多远?不要问眼睛,而是要问胸襟。

小源2012-07-12 01:34:45
有志向无意志可能只会好高骛远, 有意志无志向可能只是鼠目寸光。
加州花坊2012-07-12 01:45:58
同意,努力!
走马读人2012-07-12 12:45:10
Good point! 想象力丰富 vs. 高度热情
走马读人2012-07-12 12:49:44
fertile富 vs. fervent 热情
小源2012-07-12 14:05:53
同悼你的母亲,走兄节哀保重!
小源2012-07-12 14:07:33
Imaginative vs. enthusiasm
加州花坊2012-07-12 14:46:18
I am so sorry to hear it. Where is she?
走马读人2012-07-12 15:38:13
she will be taken away life support at 6 pm in a hospital.