非常酷2006-12-03 15:44:43


其实比起有人可以turn to 的幸福,现在越来越希望的是,当我爱的人需要时,我可以成为他们turn to 的对象。

以前一直觉得,女孩子就是可以随便任性的,遇到麻烦交给别人去做就好了。刚个公主,开开心心的过一辈子,就可以了。最近呢,却越来越感到,如果你爱的人,能够把你当成一个可以在困难时候,愿意去turn to的人,才是最幸福的。因为,你知道,你有那种力量,让他们感到安心,感到安全。你会为你能保护他们,而自豪。

教会我这一课的,是俺的小妹妹。去年差不多也是这个时候,她的全心依赖,以及不安,让我知道我必须坚强起来,保护她,给她力量,让她觉得安全。虽然当时的我也很害怕,也很不安,也很慌张,但我知道,我必须要坚强,为了我爱的人。

给予爱,其实是人生很重要的课题。可能因为家庭原因,以前,一直把这一步忽略掉了,觉得,只要安心的接收大家的宠爱,大家的帮助,就可以了。现在才觉得,以前的自己是多么的孩子气。不过,好像现在认识到这一点,还不晚。

下星期,要开始一份新的义工了。写下这些,只是想告诉自己,hey,要加油哦,告诉那些孩子,他们是多么的值得爱,即使他们的身体,有些残缺。虽然可能还是会被那些孩子们影响,但是,就像妈妈告诉我的,你要让那些孩子觉得,他们是被爱着的。我会努力的。

其实,发现自己能够这样付出的感觉,真的很好。

爱,真的是人生最大的意义。 :)

ps下,其实呢,有人可以turn to 真的很幸福……~嘎嘎~但也要记得,让你爱的人知道,你也是可以让他们turn to的!

歌词:

When I'm lost...in the rain
In your eyes I know I'll find the light
To light my way
When I'm scared
Losing ground
When my world is going crazy
You can turn it all around
And when I'm down you're there
Pushing me to the top
You're always there giving me all you've got

For a shield, from the storm
For a friend, for a love
to keep me safe and warm
I turn to you
For the strength, to be strong
For the will to carry on
For everything you do
For everything that's true
I turn to you-ooh

And when I lose...the will to win
I just reach for you
And I can reach the sky again
I can do anything
'Cause your love is so amazing
'Cause your love inspires me
And when I need a friend
You're always on my side
Giving me faith
taking me through the night

(Joined by Background Vocals)
For a shield, from the storm
For a friend, for a love
To keep me safe and warm
I turn to you
For the strength, to be strong
For the will to carry on
For everything you do
I turn to you-ooh,ohhh

For the arms to be my shelter
Through all the rain
For truth that will never change
For someone to lean on
For a heart I can rely on through anything
For the one who...I can run to...oh
I turn to you


(Joined by Background Vocals)
For a shield from the storm
For a friend, for a love
To keep me safe and warm, yeah yeah
I turn to you
For the strength to be strong
For the will to carry on
For everything you do
For everything that's true
For everything you do - ooh oh
For everything that's true
I turn to you...ooh.