心存善念2021-12-27 18:21:06

在心理学中,通过“扭曲受害者眼中的真实”来对对方进行情绪控制的操纵行为,被称为“煤气灯操纵法” 。

 

而“煤气灯效应”的概念,源自帕特里克·汉密尔顿1938年创作的剧本。1944年,改编自该剧本的经典黑色悬疑片《煤气灯下》(Gaslight)问世。影片讲述了丈夫为了谋取妻子的财产,千方百计把妻子逼疯的故事。

 

剧中,妻子看到了微弱的煤气灯光,丈夫却一直否认,说她看错了。妻子单纯地爱着丈夫,对其深信不疑,久而久之就确信自己真的哪里出了毛病。

 

US-based author of The Gaslight Effect, Dr Robin Stern, outlined the insidious nature of gaslighting, writing: "It's a form of emotional abuse and manipulation that is difficult to recognize and even harder to break free from."

 

The term describes a type of emotional abuse, and unlike other forms, is difficult to recognize because it distorts a person's sense of reality.

 

At its mildest, gaslighting leaves victims uneasy, wondering why they always seem to end up in the wrong.“

 

At it's worst, gaslighting leads to major depression, with formerly strong, vibrant persons reduced to abject misery and self-hatred.

疏影笑寒2021-12-27 18:57:14
这种洗脑太冷酷了!
心存善念2021-12-27 19:16:57
疏影早!不自细看还以为你说‘太酷了“
心存善念2021-12-27 19:17:37
你看过这个电影吗?
疏影笑寒2021-12-27 21:34:36
没有看过。你看过吗?
妖妖灵2021-12-27 21:59:34
跟着善念边吃瓜边学英文啊:)
心存善念2021-12-27 22:37:25
很小时在国內看过,到现在也等于没看过 :))
心存善念2021-12-27 22:38:23
哈哈!我更乐于吃瓜 :))
天边一片白云2021-12-28 01:49:56
哈哈,看八卦虽说浪费吋间,好呆还能学点英文。顺着你的贴子进步了解了一下gaslighting. 太恐怖了。
梅雨潭2021-12-28 03:55:46
恭喜善念。首页进来,谢谢网管,由最近的一些夫妻狗血故事想到 the Gaslight Effect推荐成功
心存善念2021-12-28 05:11:05
谢班长推荐!