we have been married five years. be honest, he is not so bad except he doesn't know how to get along with me because it's so easy for him to lose temper and sometimes he is so picky that I can't bear. every time when I am so sad and can't help crying, he just leaves me alone or goes away. after these years, I think I'm losing my confidence on our marriage. actually i really don't like the major i'm studying now at all just because he thinks we can have a better life if i can find a relative job. before i go to school, he says that I waiste time and money. when i find something to do without work permit, he thinks that's not a decent job. he doesn't like do any housework. after he gets up, he needs me get up and prepare the breakfast. now 485 is pending, I'm so frustrated, i really don't know what will happen next.