moonearth,
I am a single mom too. I have a six year old daughter. Life is hard for the women like us. But remember this:
take care of today, tomorrow will take care itself.
I went back a year ago to get divorce in "Jie Dao Ban Shi Chu". But I was told you can also get divorce at
the court, you do not have to show up in person. If your hu*****and is eager to get divorce, have him to find out more information on that.
Worst case, find a cheap attorney and file it here. If $1000 dollar can get you a new start, I think it's worth.
Do not be panic and irritated by what other people said here. Forgiving them will make you feel good. Try it.