Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! pooroldman2007-07-09 20:15:08

Maybe I have only one chance to see my mother with lung and heart disease. Both my mother and I think she will pass away in a few months.
But I difficultly decide whether or not go back China, because of 3 reseans:
1. There are 4 heptatitis B in my big family
2. My wife has to take care of 2 sons, one 6 years old, the other one 19 months
3. I will be possible checked, because I transferred here from other State with H1B
In addition, if I get check for visa, you know this year is last year of my H1B, I have to extend H1B with 140 approval (PD 3/22/06).
Please give me your suggestions!!!!!!!
Thanks millions!!!!!!

is your wife H1b too?

Extend your _H-1B first, then go back

回复：Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!!

排除万难, 不要犹豫, 回去看看你的母亲吧!

联系医生,打乙肝预防针.

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You have to go to see your mother last minute!!!!!!!!!!!

Mother may be gone when I get H1 extension

Both of us are H1 status

Thanks for your reminding me for vacciation, mytwocents!!!!!!

这种事情居然还要别人帮你考虑

don't apply extension for either of you before you travel

my wife is hard to take care of 2 kid if I am checked for visa回复

I think you can use premium processing

Get a baby-sitter to help your wife, or send your kid to day car

I never got Hepatitis B immunization( from countryside) 回复：回复：He

Your idea is great, I will get a baby-sitter回复：Get a baby-sitter

Sorry, I don't know what you mean, I only heard LC premium proce

CO-排除万难, 不要犹豫, 回去看看你的母亲吧!

Did you have kids? how does your wife take care of 2 kids,回复：这种事

he meant h1b extension pp, but you don't need it now

find a baby sitter, specially your wife is a working mom

Thank you very much, guys!!!!! I decide to go back China回复：CO-排除

or take one kid with you go back to China

thanks for your explanation, but sorry for misunderstanding his

then it's very safe for u to go back to visit ur mom

I am from far away countryside, my wife worries about missing my

No need to extend ur H1b, next May, long time to go

I can't do that, because I am principle GC applicant 回复：then it'

u r 485 process has not start yet

I guess that's the risk u have to take

you mean I can file 485 with H4回复：u r 485 process has not start

thanks 回复：I guess that's the risk u have to take

go back anyway! you can get everything back except mother.

我看了很难过，这些就是你不能回去看母亲的理由？说得出口？？？

H1-B , GC, you need all these just for making more money

同感。一定要去看她，其他事情尽力而为，可以带一个孩子回国。