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Help on fraud marriage Mcthanks2007-09-22 01:26:16

Mcthanks2007-09-22 01:26:16
I MET A GIRL IN INTERNET AND GOT MARRIED 1.5 YEARS AGO IN CHINA. I BROUGHT HER TO THE STATES LAST SUMMER WITH H4 AND THEN APPLIED FOR I485 TOGETHER. THE STATUS IS PENDING. MY H1 WILL EXPIRES NEXT SUMMER. I WISHED WE WOULD HAVE HAPPY LIFE TOGETHER BASED ON I PLANNED.

HOWEVER, I FOUND SHE IS DOING UNFAITHFUL THINGS BEHIND ME, AND WANTS TO DIVIDE MY PROPERTY (BOUGHT BEFORE MARRIAGE, STILL UNDER MORTGAGE), GET GREEN CARD, AND SOME $$ WHEN DIVORCE. SHE IS NOT WORKING, NO ANY CONTRIBUTION TO THE FAMILY, BUT CAUSES LOTS OF PROBLEMS AND HEADACHE, WHICH IS NOT WHAT I EXPECTED FOR MY LIFE. I TRIED TO TALK TO HER AND SOLVE PROBLEMS, IT NEVER WORKED OUT BECAUSE OF THE DIFFERENCE OF BACKGROUND, EDUCATION, LIFE VALUE, ETC.

I WORK HARD TO SAVE ANY PENNY TO GET HALF OF MY HOUSE. SHE SPENDS JUST LESS THAN 2 YEARS WITH ME AND WANTS TO ENJOY WHAT I EARNED FROM HARD WORKING FOR MANY YEARS, AND SHE ALSO WANTS HER GREEN CARD AND DIVORCE. THIS IS REALLY SCARY.

Xiaobaitu, and any others, is this it? Can you give me a hand?

Many many thanks
i7512007-09-22 01:33:21
这完全取决于你,不用别人帮忙.
golfcat722007-09-22 01:55:10
1000% agree with I751 回复：这完全取决于你,不用别人帮忙.
小燕南南飞2007-09-22 02:10:37
很方便！离婚！叫她回中国去！~
f06li2007-09-22 02:16:25
你们没有孩子吗？生活习惯可能有不同，关键看你们的感情。
xiaobaitu2007-09-22 02:21:01
现在不宜闹翻，否则如果她真的是工于心计的那种人(看来像)很可能
lyon2007-09-22 02:21:28
婚前没有协议，你的财产她有一半份，这没有办法，这是law！
lyon2007-09-22 02:22:09
兔Ｍ真是好ＭＭ！
langxing2007-09-22 02:34:42
那婚前的债务呢？是不是也有她一半？
lyon2007-09-22 02:38:55
我的直觉告诉我应该也是！？
langxing2007-09-22 02:42:24
那就好办了，他正供着房子，债务也有她一半
f06li2007-09-22 02:56:01
你肯定现在挺痛苦的。但我想你当初肯定是看上人家年轻漂亮
lyon2007-09-22 02:59:49
还是多安慰好！
f06li2007-09-22 03:08:08
清官难断家务事，我认识一个女孩，也是图能出国，
toosad2007-09-22 03:09:09
修正错误总得付出点代价
sleepbear2007-09-22 03:13:45
瞎扯，人家要净资产就行了。
f06li2007-09-22 03:16:57
我也是觉得上面二位就像绕圈子一样，把自己都绕进去了
lyon2007-09-22 03:19:10
这孩子大气，算女中豪杰！
I7512007-09-22 03:19:22
她没有工作.
lyon2007-09-22 03:20:07
伙计上面没错，只是离婚时当然是估计和拆分净资产啰！
I7512007-09-22 03:22:09
就因为她工于心计.
lyon2007-09-22 03:22:09
有这一说法？似乎财产宜是夫妻双方共同拥有！除非协议在先。
I7512007-09-22 03:27:17
离婚时法律可以保护没工作的一方
f06li2007-09-22 03:40:55
你们就知道财产财产的，替你们害臊。那我做个比方
jereco2007-09-22 03:45:55
回复：Help on fraud marriage
bbslover2007-09-22 03:46:00
顶最后一句.
bbslover2007-09-22 03:48:22
算你狠!:D
I7512007-09-22 03:51:41
法官会给这种情况至少一半的家产.
Jereco2007-09-22 03:54:32
回复：算你狠!:D
f06li2007-09-22 03:56:57
一个看上年轻漂亮，一个看上出国绿卡，就这么简单。
bbslover2007-09-22 03:59:32
Good job!
i7512007-09-22 04:08:48
那就一个帮拿绿卡,一个不要财产算了.
f06li2007-09-22 04:12:53
是呀，如果向下面说的，骗人家回国，总觉得对人家有些不公平
f06li2007-09-22 04:15:30
要不楼主请你当调解人吧
lyon2007-09-22 10:47:34
ＭＭ高尚，赞一个，但这也生活中的一部分，特别是离婚时，没法回避的事！
lyon2007-09-22 10:51:01
替楼主谢谢你奉献出如此宝贵的价格不非的经验！看来他还真找的地方了？
xiaobaitu2007-09-22 16:17:30
不赞成，因为本来一起拿到绿卡是两个人的共同利益，她至少在
kingman2007-09-22 16:22:21
赶快离吧兄弟
xiaobaitu2007-09-22 16:23:22
出这种主意的人缺乏头脑，EB家属和亲属移民的485不同，petitioner
MPOS2007-09-22 17:44:13
同意兔兔。我觉得做人别太过好些，..................回复：不赞成，因为本来一起拿到绿卡是两个人的共同利益，她至少
zxcvbnmmlp2007-09-22 18:13:05
7~ l oser and narrow mind
f06li2007-09-22 18:56:04
哈哈，我也MM了
jereco2007-09-22 21:35:16
回复：出这种主意的人缺乏头脑，EB家属和亲属移民的485不同，petitioner
Alan99002007-09-23 03:19:29
回复：I had experince and may be helpful to you
jereco2007-09-23 04:19:56
回复：回复：I had experince and may be helpful to you
MMMD2007-09-23 04:42:08
Talk with her again.
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