后续 usanyc802022-08-30 19:50:14
我本来是不准备发帖了，但是看了坛子里的讨论很多姐妹智慧的观点，我还是忍不住发帖。不喜勿喷。谢谢。
我们已经回到纽约。他给我发了照片过来，之前他有说要发些照片给我因为我给他发了很多他的照片（我拍的），我原以为都是我的照片，没想到大部分都是他拍的风景，物件照。我的照片就二三张。其中一张是满天阴云山黑水黑的照片，那天他生气一整天连导游都不理。我就回复了Yes I can tell the weather was the reflection of your mind, you saw what you wanted to see。他回复到：This is one of the best travel pics I’ve ever taken. Looks like a dream. 对我的照片我这样说到：I wish I could get to know the person in the phone she has a very sweet yet shy smile which touches and melts my heart. 他回复到：Yes, she’s still there. Very nice, innocent photo of you. These travel photos make me happy and sad at the same time, but so glad we were able to make the trip happen and have such a good time together seeing so many interesting Nordic sights. Hope we can take another trip together. 我回复到：Don't be sad, life is a journey and we are blessed to see and experience different things.
其实经过失败的婚姻后，我已经不再憧憬婚姻，算命的也说我命中没有丈夫这一个角色，经过这几年的约会，我已坦然接受今后一个人过。我发现保持距离的约会关系最好，因为我有孩子我不想把事情复杂化，如果以后孩子上大学了，自己孤单一人也许会有不同想法。
